for everyone

HAPPY NEW YEAR 2009

:)

hoping to become a better person tomorrow n d day after that n after that..

belanja taun baru

taun baru, identik dengan belanja taun baru. (ahh..sebenernya cuma alasan ajaa. emg pgn belanja kok:p) hmm..belanja itu kann luas. bisa makanan, baju, pernak-pernik, dll. kmrn aku abis pergi brg keluarga dgn plan belanja taun baru (makanan). tapii, ternyata malah lamaan liad2 sepatu n sandal. jadi beli dehh. hehehe. belanja makanannya cuma bbrp menit dan itupun udah di saat2 terakhir. hehehe. tp memang ternyata, plan untuk belanja makanan2 taun baru mau di lakukan hari ini. without dad, of course. he's working. its girls stuff, anyways, so let us do it. hehee. dan itu mau di lakukan di tmpt yg berbeda. kmrn di Hypermart, hari ini di Giant, krn hari ini ada big opening of another big Giant. (yes, another. bcs there's already Giant store which is located really near with the location of the new Giant).

mengingat belanja taun baru, jadi inged Aziz Mall di Jeddah. hmm..yakin bangedd dh pasti skrg lagi diskon! besar2an. hehehehehe. branded items gives out discount till more than 75%! yg pasti asikk bangedd. dr yang harganya 200 realan bisa jd 50 real atau kurang dr itu! ahh..puas pasti:D hehee. Mall2 lain juga diskon. Biasaa, diskon end of d year n end of hajj season. paling bahagia udah ituu:p good quality, good price:)

belanja itu juga butuh skill. aku paling puas kl dpt brg bagus dgn harga yg not expensive. ahh..seneng. tp memang ada prinsip, lebih baik nyesel beli, daripade nyesel gabeli:D hehehee

selamat berbelanja semuanyaa:)

the best feeling

sometimes the best feeling u get when u shut ur eyes

:)

CATs

cats. who dont love em? hmm..probably many. many of my friends are afraid of cat and i jst cant understand why. i dont figure out yet about how to make em love this cute things. i had lots of cats. but they left in jeddah, but of course not alone. bcs my neighbors already liked them bcs many of them love cats, so they will probably love n feed them:) but i miss em so much:(

last time i asked about em, they said that they are fatter now. uhh..im so happy n glad hearing that:) i miss the times i spent with em. my first cat is SPOTTY. he's sooo really great at climbing trees. hehehe. what i remember the most about him was, when he listen to my piano plays untill he gets asleep. how cute. and about him that would stand still when me n my sisters do him a makeover. hehehee. spot is the smart one and the understand one. he listens and looks at me when i chat with him.

secondly is LOLLYPOP. they aint brothers or father-son, but they look alike. why lollypop? bcs he loves to lick. his nick names are O-lil n lolly. he's the obedient one. but he's also smart. anyways both are cute, smart, and lovable. n one more thing, they are clean! me n my sisters always take them a bath frequently.

last is PRUNUL. mostly he's sleeping! haha. yeahh. oiaah. my cats are black and white. anyway, they have different tails. spot has a black tail with a white dot at the end of his tail. olil has a long totally black tail. prunul has a puff hairy black tail.

oiaah. prunul has a twin sister. her name is prinil. i dont remember where did my fams got this idea to give this name:p

*left is prunul and right is prinil.

ohh..i almost forgot. they have lots of friends that also often play to our garden. and of course we named them too :D hehehe. there were Jono n Jini(cousins of olil), Lolo n Lala(olils bro n sist but fortunately wont survive like olil does), Lotti (cousins of purnul n prinil. she looks like prinil. prunul probably the different one), Lotti's dad (he always fight with spot), Lotti's aunt, Teddy, etc.

Talking about Lotti's dad, i remember times when he fought with spot, the big boss. hehehe. they both were meow-ing face-to-face (i called it face to face bcs their face really touched each other n they meouww-ing). louder and louder. i was thinking, maybe bcs we're in jeddah. so they are fighting like that. hehehe. well, look at saudi's ppl when they are fighting. they use no hand. they're just screaming at each other. using bad words. but they dont hit or kick. not using muscle at all. hehe. bcs when they do use muscle, then the first one that start it is the guilty one. hho. and u have to remember when u r a comer, never fight with saudis until get into the police at their territory. bcs u r always guilty. u never have the chance to win, even if u do its only very few percentage. thats the rule n thats what happen there. better take the peace^^v

Back to the cats, after coming back to Indonesia, i have no cats. huhu. new home. feel so empty bcs i have no toys, no pets to play or to talk with. hh..so sad. but Alhamdulillah it wasn't long. suddenly there's a cute little lost cat come to our home. what makes him so special was that, he totally look like olil! me n my fams couldnt believe it but it really is true:) we named him SEMPRUL. hehehehe. silly name. but we love em!

punctuation = us

Based on the Personality Reality Book, which is written by Patrick David Yanello, it's written there that,"Human is similar with the punctuations."

ThERE ARE 5 PUNCTUATiONs ThAT PRESENT HERE:

Exclamation Mark(!)
This mark is used to end a sentence with the pressure or hurried. This type of pesonality mostly do things quickly. They are certain and urge. People with this punctuation is very capable in doing things, finishing, or deciding. They make people decide what to do or make a decision.

Question Mark(?)
This punctuation is used at the end of a sentence when people wanted to ask a question. This type of pesonality mostly deliberate and asking everything. They understand, monitoring, and considered. They are the best people in thinking and considering.

Strip Mark (-)
This mark is used in between the words or frase to connect or continue an idea between the questions. The personality of this punctuation mostly wanted to keep peace betwee people. They are the best people to take care a relationship with full of affection, joy, and full of peaceness. They build the bridge of relations not burning it. They make people help and caring everyone.

Full Stop(.)
Full Stop used to end most of the sentence. This type of personality mostly care for every detail. They counting on everything. They gather and save every facts. They are the best in saving all the notes or making things or someone as perfect as they could be. They make people become detailed and perfect.

Star Mark(*)
a star punctuation is a special character that shaped like a star, that can be used to explain or attrack special attention to a reference or ideas in writing. This type of personality mostly shows their emotions and use their feelings. They could be dramatical. They are dreamer. Their ideas are interesting, full of description, full of emotions and feelings. They are the best to encourage others to use their emotions, feelings, and what they heart tells to do.

so, after reading this, WHAT PUNCTUATION ARE U?? Well, at least, which one do u think describe u the best??

confused?? oh well..me my self don't really sure about what punctuation i am. hehe.
But i finally decided that im a star mark. Because i follow what my heart tells to do:)

pink today

my color mood today is PINK.
pink is a soothing color. it is romantic and charming and promotes affection. any day is good for pink ;)

mengertilaah

Sekitar 2 bulan lalu di FKM UI, ada bazaar buku Gramedia. Wahh, menarik nihh kayaknyaa. Sekalian ngaktifin KTM di BNI, mampir deh ksitu. Banyak buku muraaah! Tapi memang harus teliti dan di liat satu2 biar dapet buku yang bener2 bagus dan sesuai dengan kita. Setelah tawaf beberapa kali di sana, akhirnya buku karangan Leslie Yerkes and Randy Martin which illustrated by Ben Dewey yang judulnya "They Just, Don't Get it! " menjadi pilihan terakhirku.

Kenapa aku memilih buku ini? Satu hal, aku suka di pahami. Tapi sering kali orang salah mengerti aku. Bukan salah mereka juga sii. Mungkin itu salahku juga yang kadang terlalu rumit untuk di mengerti, bahkan kadang aku sendiri tidak mengerti diriku^^. Ia setiap orang memiliki cara sendiri untuk memahami sesuatu. Begitu pula aku. Tapi lumayanlah buku ini bisa sebagai menyegar pikiran kita. Ini ringkasannya;

How do we change resistance into understanding??

a. Bertanggung Jawab
Ketika sesuatu berjalan tidak seperti yang kita ingingkan, sering kali kita bertanya, salah siapa ini? dan sering kali kita menyalahkan orang lain atas masalah2 yang ada di diri kita. Padahal, masalah itu lebih berkaitan pada diri kita, bukan orang lain. Dan, ketika kita sudah menyadarinya, berarti kita sudah memahami. Pada akhirnya, kita akan berhenti mencari kambing hitam dan mulai mencari penyelesaian.

b. Rendah Hati

Tahu borgol China yang di masukkan ke dalam jari2 kita? Yang semakin keras kita menariknya, akan semakin keras pula borgol itu hingga semakin menjepit jari2 kita. Tetapi ketika kita merenggangkannya, maka borgol itu akan terlepas dengan sendirinya. Tahu kan?

Pemaksaan memang reaksi alami kita untuk menyelesaikan suatu masalah. Tetapi, sering kali memberikan hasil yang kurang efektif. Tenang, percaya diri, serta belajar untuk memberi partisipasi penuh tanpa pemaksaan; dapat menjadi penyelesaian. Itulah kerendahan hati, ketika kamu mengakui bahwa kamu tidak mengetahui segalanya dan meminta bantuan, lebih baik dari pada berusaha merubah mereka menjadi dirimu. Karna pemaksaan melahirkan perlawanan, tetapi tidak dengan kerendahan hati:)

c. Mulai dengan Pertanyaan

Dalam kehidupan sehari-hari, jebakan fatal adalah ketika kita berusaha membuat mereka mengerti dengan cara memberi tahu. Padahal, lebih baik jika kita dapat mengajukan pertanyaan yang dapat menggugah mereka. Karna di beri tahu itu membosankan, gunakan kekuatan pertanyaan! Perlu di ingat, ketika kita mengajukan pertanyaan, dan ketika mereka mulai merespon anda, maka mereka akan melahirkan gagasan baru yang kadang lebih dari yang kita bayangkan.

d.Tetap Terbuka

Terbukalah dengan berbagai gagasan dan janganlah berusaha untuk menarik mereka ke sisi kita ataupun merasa paling benar. Karna ketika kita mendengar mereka, kita pun akan di dengar, dan kita ataupun mereka akan mendapatkan hasil yang terbaik.

e. Percaya Semua Bisa

"Whether u believe u can or u can't, u're always right!"

:)

when. .

when u can see it

u can't always feel it

itu rasa..

rasa itu anugerah. .
penuh kesejukkan. mendamaikan
pula merindukan. pun menggetarkan
menghangatkan juga bahagia
berjuta senyuman tanpa alasan

tapi kadang..
begitu menyesakkan.
membingungkan. .